I believe that the time has come for you to honor your soul’s deepest desires and to allow in all the gifts the Universe has for you.
The challenge is that you must learn to receive at a much bigger level and I suspect that if you found your way here you feel much more comfortable being the “giver”, “doer” or “get-it-done-er”.
Receiving just isn’t in your DNA so things like asking for money, allowing in recognition and opportunities, or even seeking support takes you WAY out of your comfort zone.
When you’re constantly focused on what you can do for others, how you can show up in the world and “make things happen”, without balancing that effort with rest, support and love you end up exhausted and overwhelmed or worse, you start to lose sight of possibility and your sense of purpose.
I know. I was there!
I worked my a$$ off to grow my business. I was caring for aging parents and growing kids. I kept trying to be “everything to everyone,” while shouldering debt my husband and I had accumulated when I first left my job to start this business AND he was out of work at the same time.
One morning I woke up and realized that the way I was walking through the world was draining my life, not making it better. My mind was constantly racing to figure out how to do more, fix more, be more. I never felt caught up. I was short-tempered with my kids. And I rarely saw my friends.
I believed for so long that I wasn’t succeeding because I didn’t have the “grit” of those truly successful people. But on that morning I decided that if tolerating all this was what it took to be successful, then maybe success wasn’t worth it.
As soon as I was ready to quit, something shifted inside me. A small voice whispered, “There is another way.” Tears filled my eyes. I wanted so badly to have the freedom and sense of purpose that originally led me on this path but I was empty.
I put all my attention on listening to that intuitive voice that had whispered there was “another way” and letting it guide me. Over time it showed me what systems and commitments worked for my soul and what didn’t.
It also showed me I had to allow in far more support from the Divine, my metaphysical helpers and my family. I had to unlearn that the only way to get things done was to do it myself and trust that support was available and possible.
Once I started to “surrender” the obligations that felt heavy and have faith that the Divine truly had my back magic started to happen. My business began to grow in leaps and bounds while I worked far fewer hours. We easily paid down debt. I had fun with my kids. My husband and I eagerly made time for date nights.
I now have the life and business I dreamed about years ago. Getting here has not always been easy. Receiving can be very scary if you are used to feeling like it’s “all you.” But now I realize that receiving isn’t an action, it’s a muscle.
My mission is to ensure that you and every other good person knows exactly how to build those receiving muscles so that life feels easier and love expands in your life.
You are not alone. The Divine loves you. The Universe does have your back. You just need to learn how to receive at the same level you give to experience that love and support.
If you’d like my help doing it there are a few ways we can play together: